The way that we have sex is the way that we live - in patterns and patterns in sexuality relate to kissing the same way and touching the same way.

In patterns, there's no space for presence, for awareness; there's no space for the dance of energy, the expression and sharing of our eroticism. For most people it's about having an orgasm, and our pattern is geared to that, to reaching that, to achieving that. That's the criterion for a successful sexual experience. Orgasms are just one possibility in the limitless sea of pleasure and sexual energy experiences. However, when we're in the pattern, and the goal is to come, it becomes a limitation, it keeps us from exploring, expanding, opening, endlessly.

There is a different way of pleasuring and of loving, but:

• There has to be a letting go of what we know, of what we think we know.

• There has to be a letting go of how.

• We have to open something within us.

The first step in this is to learn to be still and to listen:

• To listen to our body, to our breath, to our heart.

• To allow something different to arise, to guide us.

• To allow it, not do it.

Patience.

It will happen.

Then to follow that.

To allow it to lead us, not in the way we think it should be, not in the way we think it should go, not in the way we think it should happen. Not in the pattern.

In the allowing.

From the stillness, there will be movement.

Slow, subtle.

And what you will feel, oh my, what you will experience…

I invite you to an opportunity... an opportunity to step into your being, your aliveness and be witness to your body in its fullness, at your pace.

On May 17 at 4:00pm-6:30pm MDT, I will hold a loving, safe, on-line space and provide you with tools to awaken your senses and deepen intimacy with yourself and in your relationships. Unsure if this is for you? Please reach out to me directly. Find more details about this enriching opportunity can be found here: