Orgasm - Fake it 'till you make it? I invite you to think otherwise...

Admit it. You have done it, or you know someone that has - maybe once; multiple times or maybe you just don't know any other way. Ask yourself why? Changing the way we think or do things is often difficult because of our existing beliefs and conditioning.

Every time we fake an orgasm, we give our sexual power to someone other than ourselves. Ask yourself - do you grant someone else the control over your sexual satisfaction? If the answer is no, then what are you waiting for?

If the answer is yes, then this article is not for you, but I still encourage you to be curious enough to read further.

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The Journey Into Sex Positive Parenting

As sex positive parents we work hard to protect our kids from abuse and assault by having open and honest conversations, providing them with accurate sexual health information and enforcing that they are in control of what goes “in or on their body”. Yet, this message gets really confusing when we expect them to hug Aunt Betty and Uncle Johnny; sit on Santa’s lap and finish the food on their plate. Layers of conditioning run deep. The first step to change is awareness of this conditioning and the mixed messages we give our children.

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Sex Positive Role Modelling

Studies have proven that comprehensive, sex - positive education not only empowers humans but it helps kids stay safe, decreases teen pregnancy and delays the age of intercourse. It also teaches us how to honor and respect our bodies, set healthy boundaries and understand the meaning and value of growth and connection. As parents, we are constantly trying to navigate through the vast amounts of information available…

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Vulnerability – The Dance with Courage

Life is messy and throughout our lifetime we each will be faced with situations that we have not prepared for, that challenge us, cause us to question ourselves and force us to show up to our emotions and to be vulnerable.

For many, vulnerability is not only a scary word, it represents weakness or a kind of limitation. To be alive is to be vulnerable. When we embrace it, it moves us beyond our comfort zone to the uncomfortable but "real" and authentic self.

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Sexual Empowerment

SEX - It is embraced by some, despised by others, shunned, controlled, abused, enjoyed...

It is a conversation starter and finisher. Even those that fear it, are often intrigued by it. It is the foundation for transformation and connection and the "root of all evil" for others.

What is your relationship with sex? What does it mean to you?

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